Do you have the courage to truly choose?

I would like to invite you to another world and another possibility……. Interested?

When you wake up tomorrow, the rules will have changed. No longer do you have to do what you believe you should, or what is expected of you.

In this new world you get to choose what is fun for you.

You get to choose for you.

You get to live the answer to this question –

What do you truly desire your life to be?

Now after you have said win the lottery, go on holidays, buy that car and maybe give up work…….

What would you do then? tree on the earth

What would you create?

What would you stop doing and what would you do more of?

What would you do differently?

Now compare that to what you currently do.

Truth. How much of what you are doing today is what you truly desire to create as your life?

10%? 50%? (If it’s 100% you need to share with everyone how you created that!)

So what would it take to truly start creating your life?

And actually are you even in the equation of your life?

Or do you live your life trying to please everyone else – doing what you think they think you should do?

So maybe you are reading this and thinking – yeah sounds like a nice idea, but I have commitments and responsibilities I can’t just do that.

Or maybe you are thinking that this feels about a million miles from where you are.

But what if these are just justifications that are true for you because you have decided they are?

What if changing your point of view could begin to create a different reality for you?

So how can you begin to go about creating this as your reality?

Get clear about what you desire to create.

Be patient with yourself. It may take you some time to really connect with what you truly desire.

Don’t make it significant.

What if you could change the plan as often as you chose to?

What if there were no right? Only what was right for you?

Begin choosing consciously one step, one choice, at a time in the direction that you want to go.

Be curious. See what that creates and then choose again.

Choose what feels light for you, not what you think you should do.

Need a question to help you then ask – If I was truly choosing for me what would I do next?

Give up the no choice universe that you are living in.

The thing that takes away choice is the idea that we live in a ‘no choice’ universe.

What else is possible here?

What would it take for this to turn out greater than I have imagined?

See what is in front of you differently.

If you feel you have to do something that you don’t want to then ask, what would it take for this to be fun?

How can I use this to my advantage?

Need some inspiration?

Then check out The Top Five Regrets of the Dying

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

Over to you

Intrigued by what you’ve read, but not sure how to practically create it in your world?

Then drop me a line at laura@lauraborland.com  to begin to explore how.

What if it is easier than you have been told? And what if happiness is just a choice?

And as always let me know what you think or what your experience is – I love hearing from you.

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